lady sings da blues (violating propriety one unlady like gesture at a time)

Typing State of Mind

Posted by: nenabonny on: November 10, 2009

Like a leo in its truest character the winter is hard on me. Due to the lack of sun, warmth, and flowers I have to work especially hard at engaging the world outside my home. There is so much comfort in leg warmers, knitting needles, hot chocolate, Charlotte’s Web and Hungry Hungry Caterpillar. The winter has also always served a greater purpose for me. It happens to be my most productive writing season. Though buckling down anytime of the year isn’t hard the winter seems to stimulate a melancholic, reflective, and book worm state that just can’t be had in Missouri’s scorching but playful heat of August. That said, I’m taking the old Smith-Corona Cougar XL down to Jones Typewriter to get it tightened and cleaned.

This winter’s project, “Please Say You’re One of Me” You’ll enjoy. I’ll do something a wee different and post my journey through this on a separate page of this blog. I’ll include some excerpts and would enjoy reading your thoughts. This will be new for me because I am particular and protective of all my writing. For the better part of forever fear has kept my work a great secret known only to Beau, my hard drive and myself.

Enjoy the day and give a hug to someone who doesn’t expect it today. Cherio!

Can’t Find One, Create It.

Posted by: nenabonny on: November 3, 2009

Seems today every third person I meet has experienced 2007 and 2008 the same as most. Its been a long treacherous road that almost always includes layoffs, firings, company downsizing, outsourcing, and the closing of corporations. We’ve all penny pinched, taken jobs less than we’d normally accept and done some creative pricing to keep clients. Others have optioned for their unemployment benefits or taking early retirement. I happen to believe however that right now is a great time to not only be self-employed but to start planting the seeds and nurturing the growth of small business. Do you have a special skill that you enjoy and that could be of service and benefit to others?

If so consider the following:

What is your skill/What is the need?
Is their a realistic need for the service you are offering? Question your intentions, your motivations, and consult with others in your desired field. Don’t be afraid to give yourself a reality check. Before the grueling process of writing your business plan, now is the time to know how committed you are.

What is your plan?
Take the time to research, formulate and properly write a business plan. There is nothing more important when bringing an idea to fruition than the planning process. This can take two weeks to two months. Which ever, be patient, be vigilant, and be informed. Your business plan will determine your growth, your budget, and your positioning.

How much will it cost?
You must research, research, research you competition. Who is setting the standard for your market? What price points have they set and how is it affecting their bottom line. Remember that it is alright to dream big but save your peace of mind and pocket book, start small. There is nothing wrong with taking your time to ensure your dreams are built upon a rock solid foundation. Consider the three little pigs. Between a house of straw, sticks and bricks only one of those has the structural integrity to withstand the torrent, fiery nature of the financial world as we now know it. So, loans are great if you can find them BUT remember; NO PLAN, NO CASH so make it good

Network, Communicate, Cooperate
Conferences, seminars, and trade shows with an emphasis in your business focus are a great place to find new clients or meet new friends who may have new clients for you. It is also a great place to display your business. And remember, first impressions do count so know your business. Ever meet someone out and while exchanging titles or discussing work you leave the conversation not really knowing what that person did as an occupation? Its ok to be talented at many things but know what is important to share and be sure that it is connected with your business. Remember, a great deal of business is repeat and referral. If someone has a need for your business, will they refer you? Depending upon your business, partnerships can aid in sustaining the pulse of your business during slow times. See and understand your partners needs and devise a realistic and mutually beneficial plan to fulfill it. You remember the one about scratching backs right?

Continue Education
Know that business and YOUR BUSINESS especially is ever changing and ever growing. Keep abreast of the newest trends, technologies, and developments. Don’t be afraid to pay for yours or your employees continued education. Lastly, whomever the leaders are in your industry learn from them. Read what they post, understand their positioning and read their news.

In case you need some help getting started be sure to check out The Small Business Administration and The Missouri Business Portal.

To outsource your talents until you have your business off the ground check out ODesk, ELance and SoloGig.

Good luck and cheers to the motivated!

With Cameras I Play

Posted by: nenabonny on: November 3, 2009

Tonight iLLPHONICS played with Madacousitc at Cicero’s. Usually if I have time to shoot the guys during a show I’m using Beau’s Canon 5D or my Canon point and shoot. Tonight I wanted to do some recording with the G9 but as luck and dirty laundry would have it, its probably laying lost in the bottom of the laundry basket I filled in a frustrated haze of obsessive compulsiveness to clean my bedroom of all my old clothes.

Since luck and slight universe control are two great friends of mine Bizkits brought along his camera and was too tired to tell me he didn’t want me to shoot with it. I was able to snap a few pictures with Bizkits Nikon Coolpix P90. I shot with the camera in black and white with the aperture set at 2.0. Its really grainy and the noise is much higher than I would ever want to see in a digital photo, maybe in a print too. Nonetheless, they’re ok but nothing I’d put in a book.

Much A Happening at Target

Posted by: nenabonny on: October 30, 2009

This week I got a coupon book from Target in the mail. Everyone and their mother knows I LOVE CLEAN DESIGN and NEGATIVE WHITE SPACE. Needless to say, Target’s introduction between me and its new grocer section is love at first sight. Anxious to price compare, use coupons, and be sure that they did price matching (Yup, this momma’s quite thrifty) I made a trip to Target Promenade to check out the remodeling….and….I’m in mommy needs to shop in one place because of lack of time and energy to drive around St. Louis heaven. Archer Farms is Target’s premium brand with most ingrediants allowing it to be certified Organic. Timely since Beau (the boyfriend), Boo (the baby, 4) and I have adopted (attempting wholeheartedly) an organic diet and are reserving the heavy meat dinners for Sunday with family.

Also, they have these grand little wine boxes which look conveniently look like they belong in my lunch pail or purse at that next long conference. Oh, and those really great tasting NAKED juices that are an arm & calf at Schnucks…they are an entire dollar cheaper at Target. *drool*

Oh Target, you are my sweet little piece of easy living heaven!

A Rocking Saturday

Posted by: nenabonny on: October 18, 2009

Yesterday happened to be a productive and constructive Saturday at the St. Louis Interactive Festival. The Bloggers Guild hosted the event at Shock City Studios.

I’m in some serious like with the space for reasons outside of the SLIF. The live room has so many thoughtful treatments. I can name one other place that actually tuned their rooms for the delivery of great (I’d rather say perfect) sound.

I digress.

The panels covered topics from building a blog, usability to discussing new technologies and how they’ll influence internet, blogging, marketing and business cloud hosting. All in all I’d have to say it was very informative. I received great advice about my personal blogs and the anxiety I have about my ghosted blogs and keeping them separate.

So with excitement and my morning cup of joe….can’t wait till the next Bloggers Guild event.

Opening The Root

Posted by: nenabonny on: October 11, 2009

root chakra

Last week was a hectic, exhausting, and somewhat frustrating week. I release it.

I am starting this work week focused on creating and maintaining solid foundations within and around my workspace, creative space, and business.

I will engage in and build relationships that promise to be fruitful. Like old skin, I will shed relationships that promise to be more strain than they are worth. Though this can be scary I move into my present and future with excitement.

I pray for continued success for all my friends who are proving that with good initiative, a little planning and an open heart…anything, ANYTHING is possible.

 

This weeks Yoga position: Bridge Pose. Nothing extraordinary but a focus for the week.

Be peaceful

Choose Nena’s New Cut

Posted by: nenabonny on: October 9, 2009

I wanted to grow it out or buy a wig. I’m not patient enough and hate the in between stages. So, its coming OFF. Help me choose my new do! And….Yes I will be coloring as well…So Look over the pics and scroll to the bottom to vote! Can’t wait to see my new haircut!

Here are the options….




Flub, Flub, and Fluff

Posted by: nenabonny on: September 28, 2009

Much to many peoples dismay I don’t blog as regularly as I use to. My lack in frequency to posts isn’t because of a lessoned desire but because of time. I’ve failed miserably at squeezing it into my routine. I also tried shutting a few folks out of my life…Stats tell me I’ve also had an invincible reader who for no other reason than noseyness googles my blog to peep their little beady eyes in my business…..(I told you I was smarter than you fool…)

That being said…my beau confessed to me that he didn’t read my blog…and because of my infrequent posts its easy to assume that he just thought I stopped blogging. I can’t say that I’m not irritated though. I mean…I should have been on RSS a year and a half ago…..a year and a half ago….sucka! Should I be upset at his not having me on blogroll…or should I be perfectly happy that his lack of reading gives me some flexibility to to say some pretty shitty things or paint some nasty scenarios that could or could not be similar to our experiences….eh…

…or maybe I just need to check myself. How dare I be so entitled that I think I am deserving of a spot in his blogroll…I mean should I be on the same list as The Strobist and The Fader?

What-Ev…I’m going to gorge on brownies….

oh, and thank you all for reading my very rude run-on sentence…

Hijacked Laugh of the Day

Posted by: nenabonny on: September 23, 2009

Whilst tinkering with my daily blog roll I visited GMK’s corner of the viral marketing world and found this video that was quite funny.

So, I jacked the laugh to share with my Nenabonny readers.

Don’t we love that Affion Crockett!

Tags:

Will Work For Shoes.

Posted by: nenabonny on: September 16, 2009

Dear Mr. Kirkwood,

I love you. I mean, I love your work. For lack of a more vivid and explicit adjective, your shoes are sexy, nasty but the good nasty.They make me want to do very naughty things. Naughty things like walking out of my local grocer without paying for my donuts. Or showing up for breakfast meetings in my birthday suit and my Nicholas Kirkwood heels. Maybe, just maybe after selling my eggs from my one good ovary for a pair of your shoes I’d hang out on a busy street with a cardboard sign that reads, “Need bus fair. Just sold my soul for these shoes. Cut a girl a break?” Maybe I’ll wear them to Novak’s or Complex where the men scream all night, “Whoo baby! Nice wheels!”

So tell me…Am I flying to New york or London to get my pair…? A girl would need to know so I can book the cheapest ticket.

Must Have Nicholas Kirkwood!
A9085AA9081AA9086AA9079A

Follow Me in Twitter Land:

  • Is just thankful. From whence I came, to where I'm going...I'm just so thankful. 19 hours ago
  • Is in the mood for lavender and yellow...yes. That would feel good with the sunrise... 1 day ago
  • Finally, he's come around...http://thephiltography.wordpress.com/ 1 day ago
Watch videos at Vodpod and other videos from this collection.

Flickr Photos

The Storm

Chinese Food

Kaldi's in Schnucks

More Photos

SocialVibe